Thursday, March 4, 2010

wake up call.

If i've done something wrong then I will be willing to apologise and take the blame for it.

But sometimes you take the blame too early, you already say sorry.. But then you realise it actually isn't entirely your fault.

What if the other person is too blind to see that it could of been their fault.
Since you've already apologised, will the other person realised that they played a part in the arguement?

What if the other person is too into thinking about how it affected them, and they're just way in over their head about their own actions.

Do you bring it up again, when you've both discussed to get over it?
Because I don't think I can get over it because I want you to realise what went wrong, so next time.. It won't happen.. There will not be a next time.

They say little arguements are healthy in relationships; it shows that you both care about each other enough to help each other through such things. To fix things to help build the relationship and make it stronger.
From these things comes realisations.

Sometimes everyone just needs their own little wake up call. Either you hear it from others, or you come to realise it yourself.

I do admit that I may have over reacted. Obviously when your in such a close relationship you are more prone to be affected by the other persons thoughts and actions. And I'm sorry if I may had triggered the arguement.

But please, put you're pride down a little, look at both sides of the story, and understand that it's hard for me too, and not just for you.

I want to understand you, I want to help you. But I guess this is something you really have got to do on your own.

I understand. I really do. I understand that this is not who you really are, because I got to know you way before this. I am willing to wait.. I will wait. I'll let you figure it out, I'll let you do your thing.. I'll do my thing.

But I'm not going anywhere.

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